More common for wives to pay alimony

Wisconsin residents might be interested to hear that it is becoming more common for wives to be ordered to pay alimony to their ex-husbands in divorces. Husbands and wives do not necessarily have the stereotypical marriage arrangements that they used to have in the past. Traditionally, wives stayed at home while the men were the primary breadwinners. Now, however, wives may be the primary breadwinners, or both spouses may earn income equally.

Alimony was originally designed to allow the spouse who stayed at home to care for the home and children to continue living in the lifestyle he or she had become accustomed to. Traditionally, the woman was the one who received alimony from her husband during a divorce. With studies reporting that over 40 percent of the wives who work earn more than their husbands, that trend is beginning to shift. This makes it so that some husbands are, in fact, receiving alimony from their wives rather than the other way around.

Experts say that many women, like men, do not like having to pay alimony to their ex-husbands. This is especially so in cases where both the husband and the wife worked, but the wife simply earned more than the husband. Some people are advocating for the removal of alimony altogether in an attempt to make divorces as de-genderized as marriages are becoming.

Family law lawyers may be able to help people who are going through the divorce process ensure that they receive a divorce settlement that is in their best interest, and they may be able to help a couple negotiate issues such as alimony, property division, child custody, child support and other divorce matters throughout divorce proceedings.

Source: TIME Ideas, “The De-Gendering of Divorce: Wives Pay Ex-Husbands Alimony Too Read more: http://ideas.time.com/2013/05/16/the-de-gendering-of-divorce-wives-pay-ex-husbands-alimony-too/#ixzz2TrG4sEau“, Liza Mundy, May 16, 2013